[CaliGirlGodHelpMe]

"Dumb, rich and handsome. Very few women can turn that combo down." Not only CAN I turn that combo down, I DID turn that combo down. I was very much in love too; but even through the romantic fog I knew he would be a disaster to marry. Now, "Decent, honorable, kind, rich and handsome"...that I wouldn't turn down. Cali

[Texasforever]

The fact is that it does not matter. The luckiest people alive marry their best friend. It took me 3 tries to find that out and I am on my 30th anniversary with my best fishing buddy, poker buddy and the greatest gal that ever lived. We fight like cats and dogs and are complete opposites in every darn thing except that we really LIKE each other.