Be a Man and don't become unemployed or incapacitated. Women who can't carry their end of the load don't deserve custody either. There are plenty of deserving adoptive parents out there.
"Be a Man and don't become unemployed or incapacitated." Yeah... that's the mindset I'm talking about. A guy gets cancer or is injured on the job and - according to mental freaking giants like you - he's no longer a man. Lock him up, he's no good to anyone anyway, right?