Paul J. Marcoux was 23 at the time and was not penetrated as far as I can see. In essence he extorted half a mil from the church years after the fact. I would mark him down as a scam artist. Not to say what Weakland did was OK but.....
A man pulls down another man's pants and tries to fondle him, against his will, that is molestation. Or are you contending that it is not? True, Clinton "did not have sexual relations with that woman, Ms. Lewinski." Yes, it was consensual sex with Monica's will, just not penetration, unless you believe the cigar story. Since when was penetration a prerequisite of molestation?
Not to say what the man did was right, but...
But what? Forgive him in the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Ghost? Please continue where you left off at "but...".