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vanity - please help - daughter lone pro-life holdout in "ethics" class!
5/20/02 | self

Posted on 05/20/2002 7:25:01 PM PDT by AnAmericanMother

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To: AnAmericanMother
The instant fertilization occurs, the child is identifiable by his/her own unique human DNA sequence.
There is absolutely no doubt that the child IS a unique human being,
NOT merely a growth of mother's tissue to be chopped off and discarded like a toenail.
41 posted on 05/20/2002 8:06:10 PM PDT by Willie Green
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To: AnAmericanMother;Draco
Now, now, you mustn't be nervous about posting......(Grin)

Seriously, here's a good link for "Silent Scream": Pro-life. It's been very effective.

42 posted on 05/20/2002 8:07:40 PM PDT by xJones
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To: AnAmericanMother
Kudos to your efforts to post/speak up and say something. You are indeed amongst friends and supporters and your daughter is too.

My suggestion is to run, not walk, to the nearest book store that carries the book, "A Child is Born," by Lennart Nilsson. These are, by far, the best quality pictures ever taken of the unborn. Show the people for themselves just how "unhuman" (NOT!) babies are in the various stages of development. These pictures will say a thousand words.

Also, by the way, please tell your daughter that there are BUNCHES of people out here who respect her for having the guts and courage to stand up for what she knows to be the right and ETHICAL position to take. Good for her, and God bless you both!

43 posted on 05/20/2002 8:08:10 PM PDT by NotJustAnotherPrettyFace
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To: AnAmericanMother
Answers to most of their statements can be found at Human Life International, which is a good Catholic pro-life organization.

"It's not right if the mother can't support the child, and once she holds the baby she'll want to keep it and it will have a miserable life."

These sorts of statements are easy to see through, but hard to explain to students who isn't used to thinking for themselves. The statement at face value is not in any way "pro-choice", it is pro-coercion. The student says "once she holds the baby she'll want to keep it," and personally disagrees with the choice to keep the baby. So the student advocates abortion to take the choice to keep it away from the mother.

44 posted on 05/20/2002 8:09:13 PM PDT by Vince Ferrer
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To: AnAmericanMother
HERES PLENTY

ONE of the best plces on the net for abortion info and facts!

45 posted on 05/20/2002 8:10:45 PM PDT by ATOMIC_PUNK
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To: AnAmericanMother
Best answer in the world. "Thou shall not kill"!
46 posted on 05/20/2002 8:13:38 PM PDT by lawdude
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To: AnAmericanMother
Most pro-abortion arguments fall when asked to consider the difference between a fetus 1 minute before birth and one post birth. There is biologically no difference. The only difference being location. So when does the fetus become a person with rights? How many cells must it contain?
47 posted on 05/20/2002 8:14:03 PM PDT by Bogey78O
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To: AnAmericanMother
Hitler and Abortion

'When the Nazis came to power in 1933 one of the first acts Hitler did was to legalize abortion. By 1935 Germany with 65 million people was the place where over 500,000 abortions were being performed each year. Although Hitler and his government encourged Aryan women to produce a lot of children, he left the matter of abortion and all its facets in the hands of a decidely pro- abortion medical establishment. Even in the midst of Nazi propaganda aimed at increasing the Aryan population, scores of Aryan women still chose to abort their unborn children. The medical publication Deutsches Aerzleblatt reported the abortions in Germany each year reached a half-million.

Further, a Nazi decree of October 19, 1941 established abortion on demand as the official policy of Poland. Hitler, however, expressed dissatisfaction with this policy. Abortion, he believed, should NOT be limited to Poland. He therefore ordered that abortion be expanded to all populations under the control of the "Ministry of the Occupied Territories of the East."

On July 22, 1942, the Fuhrer exhibited a highly positive attitude towards abortion as an indispensable method of dealing with the non-German populations in countries under Nazi control. "In view of the large families of the native populations," he asserted, "it could only suit us if girls and women there had as many abortions as possible."

48 posted on 05/20/2002 8:15:52 PM PDT by fogarty
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To: AnAmericanMother
Suggest she interject the possible consequences to that side of the debate which might turn out to be wrong.
You say this is a religious school? God is the variable that the pro-aborts refuse to acknowledge.

"The inescapability of an order of good and evil, which is not ours to command but by which we will eventually be measured, is a steady pressure on our individual consciences, and it is made manifest by the elaborateness of attempts to deny it."

Rights Without Right

Perhaps this will help her.

49 posted on 05/20/2002 8:17:22 PM PDT by KDD
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To: AnAmericanMother
"The baby is not separate from the mother until the umbilical cord is cut." I know this one's nonsense because my obstetrician told me (while I was HAVING my daughter) that the placenta is already separated at the time of delivery.

This is bogus because whether the cord is cut or not, the baby is never PART of the mother in any way; even the placenta has the genetic makeup of the BABY. It is simply attached to the inside of the uterus in order to provide sustenance for the baby. It is a miracle of God (or nature, if you prefer) that the baby is not attacked by the woman's disease preventing mechanism and expelled as a 'foreign object' from the woman's body. It's probably the hormones!

"It doesn't have a brain, can't think for itself yet." (Babies can't do much on their own for months . . . isn't this Peter Singer's argument?)

I believe the brain waves are detectable in an unborn baby at about 4-6 weeks, with the heart being detectable at about 8 weeks. It may not be able to think for itself, but neither can a newborn; that IS Peter Singer's ghoulish argument for allowing severely mentally or physically deformed babies to be killed after birth. And if hospitals have established the cessation of brain waves as the time of natural death, why shouldn't the creation of brain waves be the BEGINNING of life?

"It's not right if the mother can't support the child, and once she holds the baby she'll want to keep it and it will have a miserable life

This is where a very good crisis pregnancy center can help. There are trained counselors who can help her make that decision. If it is a young woman in her 20's, maybe she can handle it, but for teenagers it is VERY difficult. The baby didn't ask to be created, and shouldn't be killed just because it's creation is inconvenient to its mom or dad. It should be allowed to have the very best chance possible, and it could be argued that giving this child a life with a two parent family would be the most loving gift a young woman could give her child. We are such an 'immediate gratification' society, it is hard to convince girls that 10 months out of their lives (childbirth and recovery) is a drop in the bucket compared to what lies ahead. If they want the best for themselves and their child, they will think seriously about giving it up for adoption. A baby is not a puppy, or a doll. It will love unconditionally, but is also very demanding, and a teenager just doesn't have the attitude of self-sacrifice needed for that.

Hope some of this helps. Good luck to your daughter and tell her, "YOU GO GIRL!"

50 posted on 05/20/2002 8:17:58 PM PDT by SuziQ
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To: AnAmericanMother
One of the things I've come up with that seems to get an effect, at least in getting pro-choice people to at least consider the subject more, is this ...

"Whether an unborn baby is a person yet or not isn't really the point ... the fact is that left to nature, the baby will be born and then no one would deny his or her right to live. So what's the difference in killing a baby before birth or after ? Even if you don't believe an unborn child is a person yet, you're still killing what will become a person and how can that be better ?"

I know its not the best arguement, but its at least "opened the door" a few times.

51 posted on 05/20/2002 8:24:51 PM PDT by Camber-G
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To: AnAmericanMother
Bumping an incredibly good thread. You just tell your daughter to hang tough....she IS right, she knows it, and her life will be an example to so many of her peers. I'm so proud of her, and don't even know her. And Mom? You did a great job!!!!
52 posted on 05/20/2002 8:28:57 PM PDT by Brad’s Gramma
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To: AnAmericanMother
scroll to bottom of this link- abortion arguments and how to refute them.

Unless they shout her down, these are irrefutable.

53 posted on 05/20/2002 8:30:04 PM PDT by Ahban
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To: AnAmericanMother
So the individual is 30 y/o. Can you kill him? No! How 'bout 15 y/o? No! Why, because they're still a person? Yes!
7, 3.5, 1.75, y/o? No! Why, because they're still a person? Yes!
320days, 160days, 80days? No! Why?
40, 20, 10, 5, 2.5 days? No! Why?
Now that you've answered those questions, note that all the ages given for less than 1.75 y/o the person was a fetus. All that was different was the location. The individuals mental capacity and ability differed thoughout htose times, but there was never a point that person did not exist except just before conception. That's why htroughout history moms invited folks to feel the baby's kick. they never say, "feel the nonviable tissue mass kick!" Do folks set up and decorate the nonviable tissue masses room?

The liberal SCOTUS said it was a matter of privacy, protected by the Constitution that allows this act. Logically it says that the privacy of a mom and a hitman is inviolate if the kid is less than a certain age and resides in a specific place.

If it's OK to kill them, because they don't have a brain and don't feel a thing; then it's OK to kill anyone when they're sleeping. BTW, ultrasound images show very young fetuses attempting to escape the doctors probes, just like any kid would. They're just not as adept at escape as say a six y/o.

Abortion is an act commited by a paid killer. The client is a person that doesn't want the target around, because for some reason the person bothers them.

54 posted on 05/20/2002 8:35:13 PM PDT by spunkets
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To: AnAmericanMother
Abortion is an attitude fostered by lack of self respect, very often as a result of a government that is altruistic in nature. Welfare, ADC, social security, regulations, injunctions, all are designed to give people more than they deserve. In the private sector, unions do the same thing. All of these factors are abundent in socialistic idealisms and ever so much in our own society. If we could have a government that would keep it's fingers out of our pockets to redistribute our resources, the individual would need to work for what they get and would therefore value life ever so much more. Look at the overwhelming majority of abortions. They are sought by the third world pollution that is diluting our society and it's ethics.
55 posted on 05/20/2002 8:36:03 PM PDT by ThinkLikeWaterAndReeds
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To: AnAmericanMother
"It doesn't have a brain, can't think for itself yet."

,,, what an interesting assertion this is. The child has a brain that is at the dawn of it's development. The input given by parents and society as it is raised determines to a large extent how life may turn out for it. If it's loved and educated, the child thrives. If it's neglected and left to rot, well, you know how it is. A brain at that stage of life is raw material; a blackboard waiting to be written on. Part of the richness of life is a parent's fulfillment in watching a child grow and learn. A parent's contribution is critical. Those involved in the pro-choice side of the debate don't like lifting the rock on this possibility. It means having to give something of themselves - that runs contrary to their whole outlook and the motivational basis of their argument.

56 posted on 05/20/2002 8:36:07 PM PDT by shaggy eel
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To: AnAmericanMother
The question I'd like to see your daughter ask, if she has the opportunity, is "how do you feel about the UN?"

Most lefties are very pro-UN, because they feel that the UN protects human rights, and they like the sound of "human rights." So the question I'm burning to ask is: What will you do if the UN decides a fetus is a human?

Warning, I'm not really on your side on this, I'm pro-choice, just very anti-UN, and don't really see how people would be able to reconcile this issue if indeed the UN ever DID decide that "human" rights naturally would extend to "human" fetuses. Because logically, we wouldn't be able to say "no they don't" if the only criterion for *human* rights is to be human.

57 posted on 05/20/2002 8:41:17 PM PDT by Anamensis
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To: AnAmericanMother
yes that sounds more accurate! The placenta is needed until the baby is breathing on its own.
58 posted on 05/20/2002 8:49:34 PM PDT by Terriergal
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To: FF578
If a zygote is defined as being a person, what happens when a zygote twins? Whose life, then, began at fertilization?

If a technologist takes an zygote and alters it genetically, correcting a gene disorder that would have rendered it non-viable, was that life created at fertilization, or was it created when the defect was corrected?

Where do the original actual 46 chromosomes from an embryo end up? Do they end up in part of the resulting baby, do they end up in the "scaffolding" [placenta, umbillical cord, amniotic sac, etc.], do they end up in some specific mix of places, or do they get randomly distributed?

Given the location of the status quo, I personally would think it easier to focus on arguments starting after six-eight weeks gestation. I'm not saying you should concede that an earlier-term embryo or fetus isn't a person, but you should agree not to argue that point. As technology improves, it will be easier to move the "line of protection" toward conception [i.e. today most people would probably agree that a six-month fetus is a baby, but would not say the same about a three-month fetus; if three-month fetuss can be successfully delivered and incubated to yield mature healthy babies, most people would probably agree that those too are babies].

Liberals have gotten very good at using incrementalism to restrict the right to keep and bear arms and other rights; perhaps conservatives need to learn the same techniques.

59 posted on 05/20/2002 8:50:24 PM PDT by supercat
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To: AnAmericanMother
I support all the arguments presented by others. The right of the unborn child to life seems to me evidently provable by natural reason. But, alas, we often ignore the teaching of reason, and indeed of Scripture, because our hearts are hardened by sin.

Instead of argument, may I suggest a little role playing?

Have your daughter give every one of her classmates a die, and a handkerchief. They sit down, place the handkerchief on their heads, and say "I am an unborn child".

Each clas member then rolls the die. Your daughter says "Those who rolled 1 or 2, hands up!. Right. You were aborted. Sit on the floor, and shut your eyes. You are dead."

And to the others - "You are survivors. Remove the handkerchief, stand up and look at the light of day."

After the game, she can say "This is what happened to our generation. For every two children in this room, there is a third who didn't make it. That classmate might have been a great athlete, a fun person to be with, a dearfriend, or even your intended spouse. Now how do you feel about abortion?"

Since you say the school is nominaly Christian, the lesson can conclude with this prayer:

Heavenly Father, who created us all, seen and unseen, hear our prayers for anyone who may consider destroying an innocent child. Guide them to save the smallest, weakest and most beautiful of your creations. For all those tiny ones who were lost this day through abortion, receive these orphans who could not cry out. Wrap them in your divine love and bestow your blessings on them in Heaven.

60 posted on 05/20/2002 8:50:47 PM PDT by John Locke
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