He did take some violent action against moneychangers in the Temple, so He was not all sweetness and light as we understand the term. He also said some pointed things about hurting children. There is evidence that He saw hardship in some cases as the will and lesson of God.
You defend homosexuality, which Jesus would not do, considering all the scriptual mandates against it. So, I find your using His name to argue here just a tool to try to win a point in favor of a direction our culture is taking that He definitely wouldn't approve of. 