I am not sure what YOUR problem is. What is with the personal attacks? My marriage is just fine, my husband isn't neglected, and neither one of us would ever cheat.
I have the right to my opinion. Nobody is ever FORCED to commit adultery. There are other choices. If you aren't a Christian than you don't care what the Bible dictates. I do.
I'm always amazed at people who have a 3rd grade sunday school knowledge of the bible but feel they are qualified to instruct a church and its pastor on following the bible.