Are you a "Dutch Calvinist"? If so, maybe you just haven't gotten the word that happiness is not acceptable. Rather, you are to feel 'joy' in your depraved state. You think I am kidding? I'm dead serious. John Calvin was a miserable human being who tried to control the lives of others. Certainly he was a brilliant man, but he simply did not comprehend the true meaning of Grace, mercy, and the fact that through the birth, life, death and ressurection of Christ, that eternal life was available to all who would place their faith in Jesus.
I did not attempt to imply that all Calvinists were unhappy, but even many Calvinists reject the extreme and unbiblical positions maintained by many Dutch Calvinists.Ummmmmmmm actually Wrigley is very funny...and Jean tries hard too:>))
Ask Jean why sex standing up is unacceptable in the Dutch Reform Church.....he will tell you in FR mail..LOL