The fact that he's not as uptight and judgemental as some of the posters on this thread.
YOU: "The fact that he's not as uptight and judgemental as some of the posters on this thread."
Be careful! There is a form of self-righteousness that is very subtle, but is the most extreme form, in the end. Take Larry Flynt, for instance. Many think that one thing he isn't is self-righteous, simply because he wallows in licentiousness and smut. But pornographers and metalheads are the ultimate self-righteous people, because they are saying that THEY are the only "honest" ones, and everyone else is just a hypocrite. They are saying that the self-evident Good in the Universe is phony, but that their way is the real righteousness. Think about it.