You're in good company. You're as dense as rightwing2.
Neoconservative has one meaning and only one meaning. You can't change the definitive definition of neoconservative, just because it fits a certain catch phrase, used by political pundits from Chris Matthews to Pat Buchanan. Just because some political writers choose to create their own definitions for certain words and use those definitions, out of context, doesn't make it correct, or acceptable.
I support Israel and PM Sharon, that doesn't make me a neoconservative. Neo = new! I've been a Reagan conservative for nearly thirty years now. I'm not a new to the conservative movement. It's time you applied some common sense to this argument. The truth is staring you right in front of your face.
neoconservatism: a political perspective which is committed to cultural traditionalism, democratic capitalism, and a foreign policy promoting freedom and American interests around the world