How do you tell a celibate gay is gay? This is a serious question. I have a real problem with subjective judgements made about a man just because he likes Maria Callas arias and may have certain effeminate mannerisms.
Someone posted an article on FR recently in which some psychologist said something about the gay libido being much stronger than the straight and that 30% of gay men were attracted to teenage boys. It was the first time I had read anything along these lines.
How many heterosexual men are attracted to teenage girls? And what does a "much stronger libido" mean?
We need to keep our heads and not run off in all directions. I know two priests who I SUSPECT may be homosexually-oriented, but they are good men, well-liked by their parishioners, and have never strayed, as far as I know.
I would hate for these two guys to get caught up in some kind of witch hunt.