Males and females are very separated now. The sexual revolution has done it's job well.
I can remember, many years ago before most people here were born, having enjoyable relaxed conversations with women I really liked. In recent decades women have become progressively shallow, progressively dishonest, progressively coarse, and progressively angry. There are few of them stable or honest enough to think about being the mother of your child. Ninety percent of them are disasters waiting to happen to somebody. That's as kind as I can be.
We have spawned generations of both sexs who lack capacity for any kind of reasonable interpersonal relationships. They are trying to make sex do everything. As far as sex, you dial their navel for the disease you want.