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To: Jim Noble
Fine with me. I think its a great idea to hand kids over to their fathers to raise. I'd love to see some of these "single-dads" raise the 7 or 8 kids (or God only knows how many) they've fathered. More power to them, I'm sure they'll do a great job!

Actually, I favor mandated (not optional) joint custody with a 50/50 split between the parents on both hands-on child care and financial support. But your plan might work too. It's worth a shot. I say we give the dads a chance and see what they can do.

I wouldn't buy off on your "felony" thing for a mom though if a dad refuses to take the kids.
310 posted on 04/24/2002 9:12:34 PM PDT by Lorianne
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To: Lorianne
"Fine with me. I think its a great idea to hand kids over to their fathers to raise. I'd love to see some of these "single-dads" raise the 7 or 8 kids (or God only knows how many) they've fathered. More power to them, I'm sure they'll do a great job! "

Anecdotally, I've known two such men whom you would consider to be the dregs in your misandric barrel. One guy, a formerly illiterate ex-con, ended up with four kids from various relationships. I got to meet him when he won the statewide learner's award in a major volunteer literacy program. Two of his kids were honors students. The other guy, same deal - illiterate until he was about twenty-five - had a couple of kids that he took back when his mother died. They too became honor students under his care. When I think of men as single fathers, those guys always come to mind.

The facts are that roughly 85% of the incarcerated and 80% of pregnant teen girls were raised by single mothers, who make up roughly 80% of single parents. Less than 1% of those groups were raised by single fathers, who make up 15% of single parents. At the very least, these numbers indicate that an involved father is as or more important than an involved support payment.

It's a pathetic myth that the men who've storm enemy lines, dug canals through jungles, and fired themselves off into space in tin cans are incapable of rearing children alone. At the risk of sounding like I'm trying to restart the gender pissing contest - single parenting may be a sub-optimal arrangement, but when men do it, they're generally more successful at it than women.

332 posted on 04/25/2002 1:44:22 PM PDT by Harrison Bergeron
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