The playboys and the violent wolves just as routinely ignore all the above and do what they what, and generally waltz away.
As long as men admire other men for their ability to get, use and dispose of women shamelessly, and uphold that behavior as socially acceptable the war will continue.
Men do need to put their collective foot down, but it's with other men. You dudes put your patriarchal house in order and you'll have no trouble getting the gals back in line.
Are these women worth having?