Lucky after having done my part to put my lawyers' children through college.
It's odd how often professional people like lawyers use the word "gestapo" when discussing this particular form of social "services." Once the dust has settled I'm thinking of starting an organization to try to improve the legal climate a little for those of us who are innocent. I understand the issues involved when the parent is actually a danger to their children (and I recognize you are only taking my word for my own situation) but there should be more due process than there is.
But that's another thread topic.
Shalom.
There are several such organizations. One of the best books on how to defend yourself is Profane Justice: A Comprehensive Guide to Asserting Your Parental Rights by Suzanne Shell. You can order the book and find out more about her organization at www.profane-justice.org
I'm currently working with her on a few projects of my own. You can read more about those projects in another thread.