Why do you guys insist on calling those who aren't attacking the parents apologists? I've yet to see ANYONE apologize for their behaviour.
Look, lady. Anyone reading this statement will quickly come to the logical conclusion that you think "apologist" means someone is apologizing for something. I don't see that anyone has to prove anything--you've already proven (with your own words, which makes it all the more delicious) that you haven't a grip--on the definition of the word "apologist", anyway. Perhaps using smaller words would help?