[Amore]

You make an excellent point. That's one thing all abusers have in common -- the belief that it's the other person's fault, it's the other person who MADE the abuser do it, MADE them hurt that other person.

[RobRoy]

You make an excellent point. That's one thing all abusers have in common -- the belief that it's the other person's fault, it's the other person who MADE the abuser do it, MADE them hurt that other person.

Bingo! That is exactly why so many women are attempting unilateral no fault divorces these days. Unfortunately, when there are children involved, they find out too late that they have jumped from a warm frying pan into a hot fire.