[quitwhining]

Not every failed marriage makes a person a 'two time marriage loser'..she had a long marriage to another vet, Dr. Willis; they shared a practice in Merced. They had their three kids and the marriage failed but not for lack of effort on Dr. Christines part. She is mid 40's. The fact that she had these three great kids from one long first marriage, and a young child from this second one, certainly isnt enough for you to classify her as some serial marriage loser type. Your anger, perhaps often justified, is not in this case. This is just an awful, awful event. Redirect your spleen at the killer, and give this mom your pity.

[ValerieUSA]

Thank you for speaking up for this woman in this moment of unspeakable tragedy. The assumption that she is a loser because her children have different last names is appalling. I am a widow, if I remarry my last name will not be the same as my children's, but it doesn't mean I have not been a good wife or am out to destroy mens' lives.