[janette]

I should better ask you the question coming in an personal mail, but I think, it's for all! Help me to understand: Is a French kiss realy as bad as a naked brest? This question is serious, because it is touching a cultural thing. In "my world" it's very natural, but here in the states it's called pornographie(even the spelling I don't get right:-( ), give me some advice, please!

[connectthedots]

If Rainmist thinks french kissing on mouth is inappropriate, I would suggest she not read Song of Solomon very closely.

[ccmay]

Janette,

Please be assured that Rainmist does not speak for the average American. In fact, she is the first and only woman I have ever heard say such things about French kisses. I have been kissing girls that way since I was about 13 and they have been kissing right back. I kiss my wife that way almost every day.

It's rather sad really. Maybe she is frigid or has some kind of obsessive-compulsive disorder about germs.

-ccm