My heart goes out to you...Fortunately, my tiny rural parish has my husband playing the musical liturgy, and he is a classicly trained keyboard musician, who loves the best that music has to offer...we also attend mass occasionally at a nearby Trappist monastery, where Gregorian chant is alive
My dear, I know how you feel...
Uh oh....my husband accompanies the the choir at our parish and I sing in it; we use music from Dan Shutte and Michael Joncas. There's no hope for us...I guess we're going straight to hell! Our Mass is said in English and everything! (shivering)