Sadly, it appears that I also am blaming a guy who I both like and had trusted. And I feel ill about it, I really do.
But damnit, how else do we make "our guys" feel accountable for stupid crap like this?
Well, taking your ball and going home will guarantee that you won't get to play.
I don't feel so impotent as to shout "All right, that's it, I AM LEAVING!" everytime something frustrates me.