We "discussed" it this morning, it wasn't terribly unpleasant. She completely trusts her source and thinks I'm just being stubborn and how do I know that I can trust what I get here. The correct response was that here on FR we don't have alot of PC/touchy feely soccer mom/the government loves us and is always right types. We also do extensive research. I also explained to her about the way rumors start. Gee, I'm glad we don't work in the same department anymore.
I defer to your wisdom Fres, and beg your forgiveness for posting such absolute tripe.