I understand exactly what you're saying Mack. Men and women are completely different in that regard and we all know it. Women control sex, and they always have. Men approach women with sex in mind, and women either accept the offer or reject the offer. Any trip to a bar on a Friday night will show that an average looking woman has her pick of men.
I've been married for well over a decade now, and I remain faithful only by avoiding situations that cause all the blood to rush out of my brain. If I were ever so stupid as to let a cutie sit down and wiggle on my lap, it would be all over, I'd be saying yes before I knew the question.