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How Females Choose Their Mates
Scientific American ^ | March 2002 | by Lee Alan Dugatkin and Jean-Guy J. Godin

Posted on 03/13/2002 4:44:42 PM PST by vannrox

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To: Paul C. Jesup
So a puffed up jerk would.... collapse like a weenie, and a confident man would get back up, dust off his suit, and keep plugging away. I guess.
141 posted on 03/13/2002 7:34:34 PM PST by Jason Kauppinen
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To: weikel
If you are the husband, I pity you. Because when she divorces you, she is going to take it all away from you and also force the court to make you her financial slave for the rest of your life.

(SARCASM!!)Do yourself a favor now, murder-suicide, it is less painful.

143 posted on 03/13/2002 7:36:28 PM PST by Paul C. Jesup
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To: kd5cts
Nope. I could have married someone that I found more physically attractive. I married for other reasons.

Dude, if your wife reads this, you are in trouble :)

144 posted on 03/13/2002 7:36:38 PM PST by southern rock
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To: Jason Kauppinen
Exactly.
146 posted on 03/13/2002 7:37:21 PM PST by Paul C. Jesup
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To: mackattack
Actually im gonna disagree the puffed up jerks start trouble but when someone challenges them( for causing trouble) they ussually p**** out of a fight. The confident tough guys don't start trouble they just... finish it.
147 posted on 03/13/2002 7:37:43 PM PST by weikel
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To: Paul C. Jesup
Im not gettin married without a prenup( unless the girl is rich) and im not the husband.
148 posted on 03/13/2002 7:38:42 PM PST by weikel
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To: mackattack
Today, ladies are being kind all the way to the poor house, because they married some schlub who's idea of manhood is a new shine on his bowling ball.

The lady who is on her way to the poor house becuase she married a shlub is the person who decided she wanted to be with a schlub. No sympathy from here. When a man and woman decide to share a life totally there are no guarantees about finances or anything else in the future. When people are young (Alas I can no longer make that claim as I have passed the half century mark) they are best served by selecting a partner who shares common goals and values where there is tenderness and caring and yes love. I stopped out for a dinner the other night after going to the range. The place I went is a local watering hole where since I am now smoking again I ate in the bar.

I had the unfortunate experience of sitting next to a physically attractive woman who was pouring her soul out to the bartender and eventually to me.

I listened to how she had just thrown out the guy she had been with for fifteen years. He had been consistently cheating on her and was from her description a borderline alcoholic. She had no idea how she was going to get on with her life. She kept asking where are all the good eligible men. I quietly told her the following facts. A man over forty who is single and making it on his own does not wish to be saddled with a loser even a good looking loser. I she wants to find someone she should get on with her life become involved in the community and do not look to meet mister right in a bar. The simple fact is that most men who meet a woman for the first time in a bar are merely looking for a pleasent one night stand. If that is what both parties are interested in so be it but at least be honest with yourself about it.

She did not like my comments and was I think a little put off by the fact I was not interested in her.

I really did enjoy your translation of the letter.

Stay well - stay safe - Stay armed - Yorktown

149 posted on 03/13/2002 7:39:37 PM PST by harpseal
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To: weikel
Well, what if the confident guy is "streamlined" (PC for lean) like me?
151 posted on 03/13/2002 7:39:51 PM PST by Jason Kauppinen
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To: vannrox
"Nevertheless, how and why females select their partners and how mating preferences have evolved remain hotly debated issues among evolutionary biologists."

Translation: They still dont know.

152 posted on 03/13/2002 7:40:39 PM PST by Windsong
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To: mackattack
Warning, to much chocolate will make you fat.
153 posted on 03/13/2002 7:40:49 PM PST by Paul C. Jesup
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To: Jason Kauppinen
You should still probably win because you are fighting a p****( if hes much bigger than work out or get a buddy to beat him up).
155 posted on 03/13/2002 7:41:37 PM PST by weikel
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To: wimpycat
So this is where the shopping instinct comes from.

LOL! Good one! If there's one thing I can't understand, it's woman's affinity for shopping!

156 posted on 03/13/2002 7:42:16 PM PST by Tolerance Sucks Rocks
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To: southern rock
Dude, if your wife reads this, you are in trouble :)

Nope, so did she. Emphatically. In fact, she insisted on having a 10 minute talk about it before we married. Hey, wait a minute...

/john

157 posted on 03/13/2002 7:43:33 PM PST by JRandomFreeper
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To: mackattack
Quit whining...you're acting like a girl...LOL!
158 posted on 03/13/2002 7:43:37 PM PST by wardaddy
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To: Paul C. Jesup
From Dictionary.com

Word History: An agnostic does not deny the existence of God and heaven but holds that one cannot know for certain whether or not they exist. The term agnostic was fittingly coined by the 19th-century British scientist Thomas H. Huxley, who believed that only material phenomena were objects of exact knowledge. He made up the word from the prefix a-, meaning “without, not,” as in amoral, and the noun Gnostic. Gnostic is related to the Greek word gnsis, “knowledge,” which was used by early Christian writers to mean “higher, esoteric knowledge of spiritual things” hence, Gnostic referred to those with such knowledge. In coining the term agnostic, Huxley was considering as “Gnostics” a group of his fellow intellectuals“ists,” as he called themwho had eagerly embraced various doctrines or theories that explained the world to their satisfaction. Because he was a “man without a rag of a label to cover himself with,” Huxley coined the term agnostic for himself, its first published use being in 1870.
Thus, an agnostic is someone who doesn't know whether there is a God or not, or one "without knowledge".

The early "Gnostic" church was interesting also.

159 posted on 03/13/2002 7:44:52 PM PST by Jonx6
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To: eric_da_grate
My guess is: be nice without APPEARING to be nice. For example, if a woman you know is thinking of walking home alone, don't ask her if you can walk her home. Say something to this effect: "I ain't lettin' you walk home alone!"
160 posted on 03/13/2002 7:45:01 PM PST by Tolerance Sucks Rocks
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