I don't know your morals or norms, but I find it less than admirable that a married mother of three is frequenting a bar without her husband and meeting other men.
I don't care if she says it was to introduce her girlfriends or not. Good mothers are usually home with their children except for an occasional social outing. The bar trips seem more than occasional and less than innocent.
My morals say that if the mom had a bad reputation as you would say she did, then she would not have so many upper-middle class people expressing how wonderful the family is. (read all the sweet things/quotes about them...at the san diego site...it's full of compliments)
Rick Roberts is the immoral guy who spends his time feeding the fear and anger of parents who also care about their children. If you will notice, his allegations came AFTER the pitbull lawyer was hired. If we are all into conspiracie theories, than I suggest the lawyer is behind all the rumors and gossip.
Now that is a mouthful. Unless the purpose of the "bar trips" are in fact recruitment trips, for the cookie sells, of course. I suppose after meeting prospects, Brenda VD then brings them home, where they go in the garage, and all sample some of her cookies??? /innuendo now is off/ FDA