I had such an event 5 years ago when I was arrested for DUI. I was always a casual drinker, but I decided, if I am out of control to the point where I get arrested, instead of making excuses, I will simply change. And I did, I have abstained from adult beverages since 1992, and it has been an absolute blessing. Improved all aspects of my life. Business, personal and mostly spiritual levels.
I pray the van Dam's reach a similar pivotal life changing course, if as alleged their "alternative lifestyle" choices are correct.
Sorry to get so deep, but I wanted to share that. Over the past week, some hard shots have flown my way for riding these threads. But it is deeply personal with me.
I continue to read this definition.
par·ent Pronunciation Key (pârnt, pr-)
n.
1. One who begets, gives birth to, or nurtures and raises a child; a father or mother.
2. An ancestor; a progenitor.
3. An organism that produces or generates offspring.
4. A guardian; a protector.
5. A parent company.
6. A source or cause; an origin: Despair is the parent of rebellion.