I guess what makes it so hard to believe about this dad, is that the child was 'snatched' from her own home, while he was there. If that could happen at our house, hubby OR I would be eaten UP with the 'if only's'. If it happened on hubby's 'watch', wife would be eating hubby up with the 'why didn't you's'.
Hopefully your daughter has healed and y'all are fine.
Oh man, I'm telling ya, the first thing would be ''to search for the daughter''... I understand...and in a nice neighborhood ..one may have their guard down a little, I simply don't know. I bet they are going through the if onlys, don't you think? The mom said repeatedly that she could not say much to jeapordize the investigation. Personally, my daughter made some bad choices that winter..she had just gotten her car and extra freedom. Oh yes, after it was over, THEN I had the ''what ifs'', and the ''if only's''...
Thank you for your kind words. Those three days (last spring) were the worst of my life. I couldn't sleep, or eat. My daughter is 19 now, she didn't handle it well, turned to alcohol. I got her in a treatment center, and had her in touch with a Christian counselor (he had a phd and his thesis was women and hormones)..but her anger was getting out of control. She moved out in November.. :( It's been a very sad time for us. All of our hopes and dreams squashed. She's not been in contact with us .. :( Oh and btw, the law is not really on your side after they turn 18. They're considered adults and parents rights are terminated. I couldn't do anything.