[CCWoody]

If you don't believe you have the ability to make a simple decision, then I can't help you with your question.

Are you suggesting that making the decision is "really meaning it?" Well, I decided to say it, isn't that enough?

[ShadowAce]

Well, I decided to say it, isn't that enough?

Deciding to say something, and deciding to mean it are two separate decisions, and you know it.