You see, sister, just how disengenuous SKempis is. I tell him that we do not believe what he has attributed to Calvinism and this is the reply. God does not punish people for His decisions, He punishes people for their own decisions.
Romans 10 As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one:
11 There is none that understandeth, there is none that seeketh after God.
12 They are all gone out of the way, they are together become unprofitable; there is none that doeth good, no, not one.
13 Their throat is an open sepulchre; with their tongues they have used deceit; the poison of asps is under their lips:
14 Whose mouth is full of cursing and bitterness:
15 Their feet are swift to shed blood:
16 Destruction and misery are in their ways:
17 And the way of peace have they not known:
18 There is no fear of God before their eyes.
Do you think reading this that it is God's decision or mans that send him to hell?