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But what's going to happen next? Well for sure I'm going to look around and try and find out what kind of women might want to be with a guy like me who has two kids. I've met a couple of women that gave me games but no comittment. Bloody hell it was the run around. I loved the romance but I'm not willing to take a chance with my life anymore. Here's one example: Now, moving on to the big stuff. I value what you say. That is how I keep getting back to this (communicating). We met under some strange circumstances (the emails). You have proven to be a good friend, I appreciate that. We are honest with each other, right? I have to say that the way you are handling your marriage bothers me a little. I also have to ask myself what you are doing with this whole 'finding another relationship' thing. Dont you feel that really endangers you, your kids, your wife? It seems unfair, or maybe just not right to do that to your family. (Do I sound like your brother?) On the other hand, is it fair to someone else, like me, maybe, to only get that part of you that you can spare? So that you can protect the life you have built with your family, but still have passion, love, or excitement, whatever it is you really want (I'm not sure what that is....) whenever it's good or easy for you? I'm not trying to cause hurt or cast any judgment on you, just trying to sort it out or come to terms with it, it keeps coming up in my mind. I loved this woman but it was all just words.