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I am just guessing here but I think it's the same reason women have sex before marriage in the first place

HELLO NURSE!!!! Hate to break it to ye, but women ENJOY sex too, ye know.

Your argument is that women who have sex before marriage automatically cheat on their husbands?
Puh-lease!!!! Drag yerself up by the boot straps and get a friggin' life!!! (And before ye castigate me for sayin' what I've said. A) No, I'm not a liberal bitch. B) I live in Ireland with it's Catholic conservatism. C) I come from a good family. D) I'm nearly 30, and I don't ``sleep around''.

Your premise is ridiculous.

Get a grip on your emotions there, Happygal. (I'm not sure you chose the proper name for yourself.) I never said women do not enjoy sex. I am just saying I do not think they have the problem with temptation because of their sex drive. I've know women who do, but not many. Women break commitments or society norms for reasons that have to do with their feelings of self and being loved, etc. Most the women I know don't say, "look at that guy, I'd like to get in his pants" like men do about women. They either develop an emotional attachment to the guy or they enjoy the way the guy makes them feel.

Also, I did not say all women who sleep around before marriage cheat during marriage, though I would guess that it is the same type of person who does either one. You either live on principle or your don't, imo.

"Hate to break it to ye, but women ENJOY sex too, ye know. "

I thought that marriage vows were more or less intended to keep that sex within marriage. Sorry, there is a bit more to it than your simplistic statement.