[Tacis]

Wait until you get rid of this wife and get to the point of "mine, yours, and ours." Then you see how you start splitting them up. My view is that you are far less concerned with the children than you are with rubbing your former spouse's nose in it. There are real problems out there, problems that were/are way beyond the control of those involved. They are the ones that need to be fixed, not those where you are responsible for your own bad judgment and decisions.

[Saundra Duffy]

So are you criticizing this post or what? What's your point?

[geaux]

Wait until you get rid of this wife and get to the point of "mine, yours, and ours."

True story: I worked for a judge several years ago. A divorcing couple was seeking to have the court judicially divide their community assets. They, of course, were ordered to list everything they owned. Included in their list of possessions that they were fighting over: 20 plastic coat hangers; one 50 foot garden hose (green); two 50 gallon garbage cans (one blue; one green); 37 Louis L'Amour Paperbacks; and (here's the real kicker) one five-pound bag of M&M's (plain).

Thank God they didn't have kids.