That was your approach to doc, but I don't think that it is one that I would take.
(Or, is Jim's situation different because he is on your side of this discussion?)
Another issue, of course, is that you have know the_doc and had him at your home. For all I know, you've partnered on these threads for months or years with doc. So if anyone had a responsibility to send a private freepmail to doc, because he was a friend, then it was your side. In my case, I have no idea who Jim is. I know only about his post to Mom because of your recent ping.
It is possible to deny that I was attacked as "being under undue influence from Satan." But it would be what we Family Life Chaplains would call "denial."
It's time to put it behind.