However, I "pinged" you due to the fact that I wanted you to be aware that the Calvinists aren't the only "abusers". In fact, I found 500 to be downright abusive and accusatory.
You and Mom have a decision to make...actually Mom does, primarily. Do you confront it or not? You have a background in the chaplaincy and you know what I would recommend. One difficulty is that Scott says he's quitting the thread anyway.
Other than that, I wonder why he kept calling someone with Mom in her name, "brother????"
I had noticed Woody and Jim(?) arguing earlier in this thread, but I was more involved on the TULIP thread. Both of US should be working at keeping the discourse civil.