Missing Danielle Parents Allegedly Swingers

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[sneakypete]

. If it was someone outside the home who took her, and that someone knew that the parents' attentions were, shall we say, diverted at the time of the abduction, then their lifestyle choice is fair game, in my opinion.

No more than if the parents had been diverted playing computer games or taking pottery classes at the local community college.

[He Rides A White Horse]

You dont volunteer the details about what you and your husband do in the bedroom do you? You dont tell the kids that daddy likes to tie mommy up and spank her sometimes do you? Or tell them that mommy likes to be on her knees a lot do you?

Nobody said anything about providing details, you are merely trying to set up a strawman.

You said earlier that you wouldn't tell Grandmom or Grandpa that you and the Missus are going away to have sex like 'crazed weasels' or something to that effect.

You don't have to provide any details, but why not tell them that you and the missus need to spend time with other people, and leave it at that. If it's so normal, they won't bat an eye.......

.......or better yet, when your kids get old enough to ask questions about sex and marriage, tell them what you and Mommy do in a mature matter of fact way. Shouldn't be a problem, right?

You could tell your daughter that its okay if she sleeps with a different man every night, people do it all the time, and again, it's normal. Shouldn't be a problem, right?

[Don Myers]

Post 454. Sneaky, from your response, I would be willing to bet you came by your posting name honestly.

[Don Myers]

Post 455. I will never understand how you think. It is like night and day.

[He Rides A White Horse]

I think it's pretty interesting that you automatically equate a woman having sex to "whoring herself out". You think sex is dirty,don't you?

What would you call a woman who sleeps around?

[MizSterious]

Well, there is the issue of payment, so perhaps "slutting around" might suffice.

[He Rides A White Horse]

What would you call a woman who sleeps around?

By the way, the answer is the same as a man who sleeps around.

[sneakypete]

It seems to me that way too many people in here are willing to lay blame on the parents, and seem to be forgetting that whomever took that little girl is the guilty party, her parents sexual preferences do not excuse the kidnapping.

You're getting close to the root of it. The thing is these self-styled moral judges WANT and NEED the parents to be guilty of the dissapearance and possible murder of this child,PURELY because they want them punished for having "non-approved" sex. Misery loves company. The dissapearance of the young girl in this story is now a side issue for too many of these posters.

[Don Myers]

Post 466. These days, marriage doesn't mean much. Degenerates come together for awhile and then leave. Many people see nothing wrong with indiscriminate sex, adultery, and think wrong those who do. They call black white and white black. They have completely darkened minds, and they cannot see. They think that they do right when they do those things which condemn them. They are like the lemmings that charge unknowingly toward the cliff. They are running toward their death.

[He Rides A White Horse]

Well, there is the issue of payment, so perhaps "slutting around" might suffice.

How about "tramp"? Will that work?

[He Rides A White Horse]

It seems to me that way too many people in here are willing to lay blame on the parents, and seem to be forgetting that whomever took that little girl is the guilty party, her parents sexual preferences do not excuse the kidnapping.

What a crock that is.......they put their kid in danger by undoubtably letting obviously strange people have access to their daughter.

They aren't as innocent as you say they are; "I told my child to go play on the Interstate, but hey, it's not my fault she was run over by a car".

Ridiculous.

[Don Myers]

This sort of lifestyle is maybe more common than we would like to think. Look at the posters who are defending not only the lifestyle but the parents who are probably responsible for what happened to their child.

[sneakypete]

If you can't see the connection between this couple's "lifestyle" and what happened to that little girl, you need better glasses.

Maybe you can lend me a pair of your special "see evil behind every corner" glasses?

And a moral compass.

Don't try to inflict me with your guilty morality.

No one is complaining that they had sex.

Of course you are.

The problem is having it with a housefull of lowlifes dragged home from the local bar.

See? You automatically call these people "lowlifes",purely because they are having sex. You know nothing about them at all,other than the fact they came there from a neighborhood bar.They could be long-time friends of the mother and father. Nobody who knows has made the claim they were strangers.

The problem is bumping and grinding with the next door neighbor, who, it now appears, was using the mother to get access to the little girl.

It seems like he may well be the guilty party,but you are implying the mother turned the girl over to him. Like all child molestors,he was willing to "use" whatever method he needed to use in order to get close to a child. Some become priests. Some life guards. Some become teachers.

Or could she have actually offered the little girl as a little present?

Seems VERY unlikely.

[He Rides A White Horse]

Degenerates come together for awhile and then leave. Many people see nothing wrong with indiscriminate sex, adultery, and think wrong those who do.

.......and again, just like the homosexuals (and their use of the word 'homophobia'), the pedophiles, other weirdos, and now these swingers, it's everybody else who isn't normal.

Nah, there's nothing abnormal about having sex with another man. You're "homophobic", there must be something wrong with you, not me.

Pedophiles: "Girls are sexual ripe at age 13. It's normal for me at 40 to want to have sex with her. What are you, some kind of prude or something/"

Swingers: "So what if I like to watch my wife get it from other men. It's normal, I'm a successful businessman, have lots of money.......can't be anything wrong with me!! You're sexually suppressed, what's wrong with you.

It's nonsense flying out of their mouths. So it goes.

[He Rides A White Horse]

Seems VERY unlikely.

I don't think so.

[Luis Gonzalez]

One action, molesting minors, is against the law. The other, promiscuity, is not.

The fact that you do not see the gap is,in and of itself, disturbing.

[Luis Gonzalez]

"...they put their kid in danger by undoubtably letting obviously strange people have access to their daughter."

Do you allow service technicians in your house?

[FITZ]

The parents seem to be very much at fault here. They weren't exactly keeping their kids safe by bringing home bar room buddies to have an orgy and they didn't exactly lock the doors to their kids rooms from these people. I have no pity at all for the parents but the poor child who has most likely been raped and murdered by one of their playmates and the siblings who have lost their sister

[He Rides A White Horse]

This sort of lifestyle is maybe more common than we would like to think.

So are a litany of other things. I won't be calling them normal anytime soon, however.

[sneakypete]

Most churches teach something quite different, that in fact sex between married couples is sacred and blessed.

Yeah,and they also teach you will go to hell and burn for eternity for having sex with somebody you are NOT married to.

I pity you for your apparent upbringing.

Well,I don't pity you for yours. It is apparant you are happy being a blind fool.