Oh, really? Au contraire, I believe that I am setting a good example for him. I don't instill a derogatory attitude and disrespect about PEOPLE -- I inform him that their actions are WRONG -- just like I inform him that it is WRONG to murder, rob banks, commit adultery, etc. It appears to be quite telling that you "know many, many gays". You know dude, I don't hang out with drug dealers, because I think they are morally wrong. I don't hang out with gays, because I think they are morally wrong. I don't want ANYONE teaching my child moral relevance. Be gone!