Fathers that chose to quit supporting their children because they don't like what a woman does with the money are still throwing their children to the wind. The children know and will always remember that their father did not care enough for them to see that funds were provided for their care. A horrible thing for children to learn and this is totally in the hands of the father to control.
I also know from experience since I never got funds for my child. My ex even laughed about the ruses that could be used to avoid paying support.