Posted on 01/09/2002 5:02:21 PM PST by blam
This fellow has been using this premise as an approach to treatment for quite a while..
It's interesting...
Yes....and I have been trying to push it back even further. (and it was most likely in the Indus valley, not the Euphrates valley. maybe, even the Black Sea area.)
It's not a disorder but, as we say in the horse business,
it's a "different way of going"..
It requires a way of living that makes use of it's advantages...
http://www-groups.dcs.st-andrews.ac.uk/~history/Mathematicians/Einstein.html
I'm not sure that chemically intervening would have been in mankind's interest. I wonder how many latter day Einsteins have been ritalined into a "productive" life.
She excells in school, manages her disorder on her own and achieves very strong grades while in an advanced program.
I don't know or care what caused this, although there is certainly a strong genetic link in my family. My father beat the living daylights out of my brother, but he couldnt stay out of trouble. We went to church every time the doors were open, and he couldn't stay out of trouble. He pulled fire alarms constantly and got his ass torn up so bad he could barely sit for days. I'm talking about real abuse, all in the name of discipline! He stole, he ran away from school, he picked fights and he got his butt spanked constantly--well into his teens. He spent time in jail for drugs. Don't even imply this disorder is fixed by discipline and "cracking the whip." It's not
Now, do I believe (as a teacher and yes, I teach in the public schools) that ADD/ADHD is overdiagnosed? you bet--that is why my daughter went through extensive testing to eliminate every possible avenue. All tests pointed to ADHD. And BTW, I have never encouraged a parent to place their child on medication, I encourage them to research with their doctor to find solutions
I offered my daughters story as an example of a young lady who was given an obstacle and overcame it. Perhaps I should have tied in more of the genetic factor and links, but I didn't want to bore anyone with long stories. Medication takes away about 50% of her symptoms, she handles the rest through discipline and self-motivation. She has a personal goal to go off all medications before college. I support that decision.
You had no right to attack me
Too bad the father listened to a bunch of low IQ teachers and put the poor kid on ridilin even though I begged him not too. It was very sad. The teachers, doctors and even the dad seemed like a bunch of gouls to me, so adament about taking the spark out of a great kid who was more a ball of fire than a behavior problem.
Sounds like you've done the right thing with your daughter. No-one knows better than the parent.
My 4 yr. old son is, I suspect, a candidate to be diagnosed with ADHD. In preschool he is constantly moving around, has a tough time paying attention, has a tough time sharing with other kids. Physically and intellectually he is on par with his classmates, some of whom are already five, but behaviorily he's lacking. His teacher says he is a very bright kid, and then went on to insinuate that he may need some "help" or "attention" dealing with his behavior. Thanks to CT's new state law she is unable to recommend Ritalin, but did suggest we take up his excessive energy with his pediatrician.
I like my kids' pediatrician, he doesn't believe in much in ADD, he says they are paying attention, but they're paying attention to 5 or 6 things at the same time so the teachers think they aren't paying attention. They're listening to the teacher, watching out the window, talking with a friend, playing with a pencil and daydreaming about what they'll do after school.
I'm an adult 33 year old woman with severe ADD, and it was probably ADHD when I was a child. My mother beat the living daylights out of me all the time to no avail. I think because I was a girl, my behavior at school was a little better. I just couldn't shut up, but I never acted out physically.
I grew up very depressed because I couldn't figure out what was wrong with my brain and felt like there was no hope and I was such a looser. I wasn't as good as all the other kids who could do it "right". There was so much pressure to concentrate and get the job done, and I just couldn't do it. Then it looked like I was a bad girl, ignoring requests to do chores, or not getting my homework done, etc.
Being called lazy, stupid, crazy, sometimes evil...was the norm.
I totally failed school, but this was before they ended social promotion. My teachers liked me so they passed me.
It wasn't until I was 28 that I got a good diagnosis (after they labeled me everything else in the book and nothing fit). I also got an IQ test and much to my surprise I WAS SMART!!! I have a high IQ, I just can't spell. LOL I was so happy for a piece of paper to tell me I'm actually smart, after being called stupid all my life.
I can't take the meds that treat this because I found the side effects uncomfortable. I have to live a very structured, self disciplined life, and I use an egg timer of all things. I time everything in 15 minute intervals, otherwise I lose focus. I can and do HYPER focus to an extreme. I told the doctor he was crazy to tell me I had ADD because I can sit and read a book for 12 hours straight while the house burns down. He said that is one of our strengths.
I do think there is some truth to this article about addiction. I've never had a problem with being addicted to a substance, but I am addicted to thinking if that makes sense. LOL It's almost on an OCD level. My brain goes a trillion miles and hour and I have a hard time turning it off, so much so, it interrupts sleep.
Thoeting, it sounds like your daughter is a strong young women. She will do fine. It's good you caught it early and treated it early, and taught her how to function in a world that only focuses on the negative traits she has.
We have a lot of strengths which I have learned to appreciate and accept. Ive always been a big risk taker. I can jump right into a problem, hyper focus and solve it, which has helped me be a leader when a leader was needed. We are very creative, empathetic, sensitive and compassionate. Dreamers arent bad because we are visionaries. We wouldnt have any modern day conveniences if it werent for an ADHD dreamer. They are free spirits and unique. Im extremely strong willed, but thats not too bad. If you mold a strong willed child to use their strengths in a positive way, they make excellent leaders and are never afraid to stand up for what they believe in.
ADHD children arent bad or naughty. They just need to be understood by a very patient, tolerant, long suffering adult who is willing to invest the time it takes to guide them to being a functional human being in this world. They are challenging, but they arent bad.
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