I'm not quite sure why you posted what you did. If you're serious in taking these verses to broach a speculation that Jesus might have been gay, you show both an ignorance of social custom in the first century near-east, and you also seem to have a dirty mind by what you read into these verses. As an example, the idea that Jesus wept over the death of Lazarus "because of his great love for him," and that this implies they may have been gay lovers shows a gross perversion in the mind of the one who would suggest such a thing. Is it unheard of that one man would be driven to tears over the death of a friend? I got choked up at the death our a family cat recently....That doesn't mean the cat and I were sex partners!
Wherever the source of this disgusting commentary, I feel some pity for the person, who cannot see or understand simple, pure, and genuine human emotion without reading something sensational into it.