[Carolinamom]

Please add my prayers to all the others' for Sandy and you. Does she have any other family members to be with her at this sad time? ("Sad" doesn't quite describe this horrible deed, but there are no adequate words to describe this.)

[Trust but Verify]

Sandy has a sister and two brothers. Her oldest brother suffers from cerebral palsey and at the funeral in January looked very bad. Sandy herself is a three time cancer survivor. Tough as nails. The guy doesn't know it, but he should consider himself lucky to be in jail. 'Protective custody' if you will. The family made a statement at the press confernece today. The youngest brother was the spokesman and Sandy stood there crying throughout.

[Trust but Verify]

Another call from Sandy today. Her oldest brother, Tim, passed away today of an asthma attack. He was 50 and had cerebral palsy. Sandy is quite shaken. I didn't know what to say! I still don't.