As long as he upholds the Constitution and "services" his majority constituency, they can all live in the same putrid stench. But the kids shouldn't have to grow up being forced into sexual ambiguity while they're still too young to understand the politics.
What? They teach fisting? You have got to be kidding? Boy, we sure are shielded down here in Tennessee. We're up in arms over whether you can wear a midriff to school.
Even this is not necessarily true. Get beyond the usual demonizing of gays and think about this analogy: Many adults drink and smoke, but they wouldn't necessarily advocate it for schoolchildren, nor would they even approve of it. I think the same could probably be assumed for some (but not all) gays who work in the school systems. They know what's appropriate for children and what's not.