Plus, I'm getting tired of this misuse of the word "love." There's nothing in these relationships that even faintly resembles love.
I tell my children that love isn't an emotion; it's a conscious decision about how to act towards another human being. What most of these women call love is a sad combination of dependence and infatuation. We've simply got to do more to educate young women that they should choose husbands and boyfriend with their heads, not their easily mislead and hormonally charged emotions.
Such blinkered gender-bias is the real key to most of what's wrong with the so-called "family" courts.