I'm not at all clear what you're trying to imply about me, here; your post is anything but clearly worded. For the record, though, my thoughts (not feelings, please) regarding her selfishness have nothing to do with her being a her. If she was a he, I'd say the same thing. Do you view children as nothing more than a burden, inconvenience, and drag on your free-wheeling lifestyle? Was your conscience, perchance, pricked by my comment?
AB
No, actually my comments were intended for no one in particular. Just pointing out the double standard. That's all.
My kids aren't a drag at all. And I hope to have two more by the end of next month since we have decided to adopt.