In other words, as I posited earlier in the thread, why is sex before marriage often considered morally wrong - it's largely because of long-term consequences of the behavior. Yeah, and the great moral-liberal Bill Clinton used his mumps as a rationale for rape and abuse, too.
Why then is sexual activity before marriage wrong, in and of itself? Is it only because some guy in robe drilled that into your head? Again I'll ask does you deity make arbitrary rules?
This isn't even a Christian premise. Jesus himself said that the Law was made to serve man and not the other way 'round.