Its really simple Walt ... you Yankees won the war, so you can tell the story any way you want ... even if it means lying.
I'm not a Yankee. I was born and grew up in Chattanooga, Tennessee. I had several relatives in the ANV. My mother even got a copy of a document signed by Walter Taylor (Lee's adjutant)relating to one of my relatives. I also had at least one relative on the CSA side at Shiloh. In fact, I know of no relatives of mine who fought for the Union.
It -is- clear, however, that the heroes of the war were all wearing blue.
As an aside, my mom has also proved a distant link to our family and Francis Scott Key.
If he was a Yankee, I am glad of it.
Now, it is simply false to say that I can tell the story any way I like -just- because the United States subdued the giant reballion against it. You can check the note by N-S just above. The most damning words come from the rebels themselves.
Walt