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Not dating is something to which many Christian youth groups ascribe these days. In our church they have decided not to date but to ask God to bring them the right one. It does work. People can have a lot of fun with the opposite sex without dating. My friend wouldn't let her daughter date in high school. She said teenage-hood was a time to be educated for the future. She didn't miss out on a thing! When she and her boyfriend got married, she was a virgin. A rare commodity these days.

"When she and her boyfriend got married, she was a virgin. A rare commodity these days."

So she says. Many a girl has her mother fooled.

A close female friend of mine had been having sex for years, and with a number of guys (a nice Catholic girl mind you). When she got married her mother told her to put a towel down on the bed because there can be bleeding your first time. The dressing room erupted with laughter

Nevertheless, if you asked her mother, to this day, I bet she'd tell you her daughter was a virgin on her wedding day. Maybe your daughter didn't have sex, but the odds are that she did and you turned a blind eye to it. It happens everyday.