You are close to real truth here. Very close. I would change it just a bit to say:
If you do know what feels good or bad you will know that your husband is not doing much for you.
That is what these virgin seekers fear: being compared and found inadequate.
Exactly. They can be lazy in bed and the poor wman won't know any better.
I find it sad that you actually think that you know what's the truth when, in fact, we know what is the absolute truth, and if you don't believe in the Bible, there are the studies to back up my claims. Why, because the Bible has stood the test of time, will continue to do so, and its teachings will always stand the test of time. However, some of you choose to omit them as not being of my opinion. Well, I'll give you that, many peoples' perceptions, often based on a sexual view of the world, leads them to have many fallic assertions about the legitimacy of marriage and the reasons why sex should only reside within the confinds of marriage. That is, in their flawed mentality, based on lust, they choose to omit rationality or common sense and, thus, try to encompass legitimacy to the irrational in any number of ways.