I hope you don't think I was "looking down upon" women by pointing out that a "free love" type of attitude hurts them more than it does men.
Ultimately, the reason for this (so-called) "double standard" is of course that women can get pregnant and men cannot. Therefore, the notion of sex without responsibility serves primarily to allow irresponsible men to use women and then go off on their merry way. Which is precisely what (irresponsible) men want. Men, you see, won the (so-called) Sexual Revolution.
I don't see it as "looking down upon" women to acknowledge this fact. Quite the contrary.
As a woman I would look down upon a man who had had just as many partners if I was looking for the right partner.
Good for you. Best,