Uh, I'm a 24 year old male, and I have no problem not having sex. In fact, I would feel like I had violated myself if I did so before marriage. Furthermore, I know of some guys who have had sex before marriage, only to realize that it was the sex that kept them in the relationship, not the loving of that particular woman. Thus, they feel as though they wasted a good chunk of their life on relationships that were meant to go nowhere instead of finding the right girl who God has for them. In essence, they are the victims of a degenerated society.