[rodeocowboy]

If that happens, I am sorry. But, you took a VOW to God and before a legal entity stating for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health. That's the contract. You bust it, you pay. Period.

If I take a contract that says I will pay a person to play football for me, and he turns out not to be so good a football player, yet he never lied to me going in and it was a legal contract, it sticks. I still have to uphold my end of the contract. But, if the football player terminates, or divorces, the contract, he would owe me all the money I paid him, plus what ever the penalty would have been included in the breaching of the contract.

[sneakypete]

But, you took a VOW to God and before a legal entity stating for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health. That's the contract. You bust it, you pay. Period.

You have me confused with somebody else,cowboy. I've never been married,and if I HAD been the guy I wrote about,I'd have thrown her out on her ass about 9 years earlier.

I am guessing the reason he and her are still married is because they see this thing the way you do,as a business contract. Neither is willing to give up even a small portion of their material goods to be happy. If that's the way they want to live,so be it. It ain't for me,though.

[sneakypete]

If that happens, I am sorry. But, you took a VOW to God

BTW,I would never take a vow "before God",either. I don't believe in God,so such a vow would have no more meaning that taking a vow before "The Great Pumpkin".