Yeah, right. As if she'd ever be convinced to take it down through rational discussion (that would be the only point of the discussion, wouldn't it?). If she really wanted dialogue, she would have asked for it before putting up the display.
Now, we both know that the REALLY important question is whether or not the ceramic penises were circumcised, but we won't go there...
Interesting point. I wonder if she'd volunteer to sit behind a desk under her "work" with a sign saying, "Let's discuss my art." She's probably afraid of a real confrontation.
Once again, not to make light of her being an abuse victim if she is, but that doesn't give you the right to intentionally offend.
Shalom.